Because you worship Allah, please Him, glorify Him, fight for His Sake and stay firm to His Deen above all others.
Because you are a believing man whose Imaan & Akhlaq are transcendent.
Because you love your parents and grandparents so dearly for they are the ones who have been patient in bringing you up to be the man that you are predestined to be.
Because you love your siblings and your close relatives as you strive to lead them by example. Continue reading Why I want to get married to you, my Future Husband.
• Nushuz (Marital Discord)
Allah Most High blessed this ummah with the most comprehensive and perfect law ever given to mankind – the shari’a.
This law did not fail to give us solutions to one of the most common everyday problems of human life: problems between husband and wife. Even if both the husband and wife are pious, practicing Muslims in a general sense, marriage presents additional tests which many do not pass as well as they should. Continue reading Fiqh of Marriage – Nushuz (Marital Discord)
Effect of a Sound Marriage: Rights of the Husband and Wife
The first thing that every married Muslim must realize is that one’s spouse is first and foremost another Muslim. He/she is one’s brother and sister in Islam. Therefore, at minimum all rights that fall upon a Muslim due to the general brotherhood of Islam are also due to one’s spouse… Continue reading Fiqh of Marriage – Rights & Duties
Public Announcement, Wedding Feast (Walimah), Etiquettes of Coming Together
Public Announcement of the Wedding
The majority of the scholars say that the public announcement of the wedding is mustahabb (preferred, but less than obligatory), but authentic hadith prove that it is obligatory. It is never permissible to follow the opinions of scholars and imams once an authentic and clear hadith is found to the contrary. All of the four imams and other scholars forbid us to do this with their opinions. Az-Zuhri says that the announcement is obligatory and states that if two people get married secretly with two witnesses and ask them to keep it secret, they should be separated immediately and the woman must wait an ‘iddah and receive her dowry. As we saw earlier, Imam Malik’s opinion on this situation was that they be separated and never again allowed to marry. A likely reason for the opinion of many scholars being that announcement was less than obligatory is: Continue reading Fiqh of Marriage – Announcements
The mahr (dowry) is something that is paid by the man to his wife. It is paid to the wife and to her only as an honor and a respect given to her and to show that he has a serious desire to marry her and is not simply entering into the marriage contract without any sense of responsibility and obligation or effort on his part.
It has been referred to by many names in the texts and the books of fiqh:
Continue reading Fiqh of Marriage – The Mahr (Dowry)
Marriage: Goals, Purpose and Definition
The Definition of Marriage (Nikah)
The original meaning of the word nikah is the physical relationship between man and woman. It is also used secondarily to refer to the contract of marriage which makes that relationship lawful. Which of the two meanings is intended can be determined by the context in which it is used.
Continue reading Fiqh of Marriage – Purpose